THE INKWELL SOUL

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  • The Hibernation is Over

    The words shimmer on the page, like fireflies dancing in the twilight. Words, scrawled in a hand that knows the weight of both joy and weariness, ripple across the lined page. “Are you showing up for what matters to you?” the question echoes, a whisper carried on the rustling of unseen wings.

    I trace the letters with my fingertips, feeling the faint indentations left by the pen. It’s not just ink on paper, but a map, a constellation etched in the night sky of the soul. “Do you not have the energy to fire up your passion?” The words are a mirror, reflecting the weariness that clings like cobwebs, the dreams dimmed by the dust of daily living.

    But then, a spark. “The most important thing is to make sure you do something each and every day.” Not grand gestures, not feats of impossible strength, but the simple act of showing up. Like a seedling pushing through cracked earth, a single green shoot reaching for the sun.

    “Do not force yourself to be spiritual. Your life is already a path of connection.” The words bloom, a sudden burst of wildflowers in a forgotten meadow. The spirit isn’t something to be wrestled into submission, but a breath already within, a current flowing through the veins, connecting us to the earth, to the sky, to the vast, shimmering mystery of existence.

    “The spirit and the land is already embedded in yourself.” I close my eyes, and the words become a chant, a mantra echoing in the chambers of my heart. The land, not just the soil beneath my feet, but the landscape of my being, the mountains of my hopes, the rivers of my tears. It’s all woven together, a tapestry of starlight and shadow.

    “Showing up matters, connect with our wild and untamed heart.” The wildness isn’t chaos, but the untamed beauty of a storm-tossed sea, the raw power of a wolf’s howl under silver moon. It’s the part of us that remembers the ancient rhythms, the primal connection to the earth’s heartbeat.

    “Your home is in your heart.” A sigh escapes my lips, a release of tension held too long. Home isn’t a place, but a feeling, a sanctuary within, a quiet space where the soul can rest and renew.

    “Because of the turmoil in our life, there is something that often hibernates within us, which is the heartbeat of the land, the pure ancient beat once heard, feels like coming alive.” The words shimmer, imbued with a magic that transcends language. The hibernation is over. The slumbering giant within stirs, stretching its limbs, yawning with the force of creation.

    The ancient beat, the pulse of the earth, the rhythm of the stars, its all awakening. It’s not a resurrection, but a remembering, a rekindling of the flame that has always burned within. And in that awakening, in that remembering, there is a sense of coming alive, a feeling of being truly, utterly, and gloriously home.

  • Say No Words

    The silence speaks volumes, a language understood not by the ear, but by the heart. To ask for reassurance, yet to crave the absence of sound, is to seek solace in pure presence. “Tell me I will be ok, but say no words” – the yearning for comfort without the fragility of spoken promises. Perhaps words feel insufficient, prone to breaking under the weight of unspoken anxieties.

    To have one’s heart held safely in silence is a profound intimacy. No declarations needed, just the gentle, unwavering embrace of another’s care. “Hold my heart safely, but say no words” – a desire for a sanctuary built on trust, where vulnerability is met with quiet strength.

    Fears, those shadowy companions, often thrive in the echo chamber of our minds. To wish them kissed away in silence is to seek a balm that transcends verbal remedies. “Kiss away my fears, but say no words” – a longing for a touch that soothes the unseen wounds, a connection that whispers peace without uttering a sound.

    When the spirit feels fractured, words can sometimes feel like shards themselves, adding to the pain. “Hug tightly my broken spirit, but say no words” – the need for a closeness that mends through warmth and unwavering physical support, a silent acknowledgment of the fragility within.

    And finally, the deepest connection: “Touch my soul, but say no words.” This is a plea for understanding that goes beyond the surface, a communion that resonates in the quiet spaces between breaths. Its is a recognition that some truths are too profound for language, felt only in the silent meeting of spirits.

    These desires speak to a longing for a connection that transcends the limitations of language. A longing for the power of presence, touch, and the unspoken understanding that can bind two hearts together in moments of vulnerability. It is in the quiet space that true comfort and healing might be found.

  • The Resounding Roar

    The mirror reflected a fractured portrait: a girl, then a woman, pieced together from shards of stolen moments. Thirteen, the touch that burned like frost, a violation masked as a lesson. Eighteen, the tearing, the silence, a body betrayed in the dead of night. Then, the years that followed, a cage built of words and fists, a constant chipping away at the fragile sculpture of self.

    They told her, her worth was currency, minted in the curve of a hip, the downcast flutter of an eye. Submissive, they whispered, a virtue draped in chains. But the chains bit deep, leaving welts, that bloomed into bitter shame. The body, once a playground of childhood dreams, became a battlefield, a site of invasion. Every glance, every touch, a potential trigger, a phantom echo of past horrors.

    The world blurred, edges softened by a haze of fear. Decisions became minefields, each step a gamble. Trust, a word that tasted like ash, a promise broken too many times. Relationships, a tightrope walk over a chasm of anxiety, the fear of falling, of being consumed again, always lurking.

    The mind, a labyrinth of shadows, where whispers of self-blame echoed endlessly. “You asked for it. You deserved it. You are nothing.” The voice, once a melody of laughter, now a choked sob, trapped in the throat. Art became a refuge, a canvas smeared with the colors of pain, a song sung in the minor key of survival. Words, spilled onto paper, a desperate attempt to reclaim a narrative stolen by others.

    Yet, amidst the ruins, a flicker of defiance. A stubborn, fragile spark that refused to be extinguished. The eyes, once downcast, began to rise, to meet the world with a defiant stare. The body, scarred but unbroken, began to move with a newfound strength, a silent declaration of resilience.

    For within the fractured self, a battle raged. The lies, the whispers of worthlessness, clashed against the deep, primal instinct to survive, to reclaim dignity. The path to healing, a treacherous climb, a journey through the wreckage of trauma. But with each step, a new truth emerged: worth was not a commodity to be bartered, but an inherent birthright, a flame that could not be extinguished. The battleground within, a place where the echoes of pain were solely being replaced by the resounding roar of self-acceptance.

    by Elizabeth Proett

  • Why I Write

    I don’t write about sad things or emotional happenings because I am feeling sorry for myself and want sympathy. Writing is a powerful and multifaceted tool for me, a way to engage with my life experiences and forge a path forward.

    I write about a variety of emotions and topics because it is helping me heal. This is not a wallowing exercise, but a way to process complex emotions and experiences. By putting my thoughts and feelings onto paper (or screen) allows me to externalize them, creating a distance that can offer perspective. It’s like taking the swirling storm inside and giving it a tangible form I can observe and understand.

    As a once widowed, divorced, middle aged woman, who has made bad choices, has battled cancer, is an emotional wreck at times and even has a guarded heart at the same time being too open, I am learning how to navigate life!!! By writing about my journey, I am actively shaping the narrative of my life. This narrative is not about victimhood, but about resilience, learning, and growth. I am finding meaning in my experiences by weaving them into a larger story of self-discovery.

    I write to heal. I write to expand my thoughts. I write to grow, inward and outward. I am not shying away from the complexities of my emotional landscape in hopes of fostering self-awareness. Writing encourages introspection and reflection. It is almost like having a conversation with myself on ‘paper’. It helps me to see patterns, identify triggers, and ultimately make more sense of my journey.

    Writing is a powerful way to find and cultivate my voice. This is a dynamic process of self-exploration, emotional processing, and personal growth. It’s a testament and an active engagement in navigating the complexities of life as a middle-aged woman with a rich and evolving history.

  • A Poem: Exposed Lines

    Unseen, I whisper, a ghost in the sunlit room,
    words like smoke, curling, lost in the hum.
    They laugh, they talk, a vibrant, woven sound,
    while my own voice, a seed, falls on barren ground.

    Eyes glaze, a polite, distracted stare,
    a phantom touch, a breath of empty air.
    I paint my soul in ink, in raw, exposed lines,
    a canvas bleeding truth, where no one aligns.

    They know my name, my face, the shape of my days,
    but the heart beneath, a maze of hidden ways,
    remains uncharted, a silent, shadowed land,
    where feelings bloom, and whither, unplanned.

    I offer stories, fragments of my core,
    a trembling hand that reaches for the door,
    but the door stays shut, a barrier of glass,
    a silent judgement, moments that won’t pass.

    Do they not see the tremor in my hand?
    The silent scream, unheard, misunderstood, unplanned?
    The ache to be known, the longing to be seen,
    a fragile echo, lost in the in-between.

    I write, I bleed, I pour myself onto the page,
    a desperate plea, a prisoner in a cage.
    And hope, a fragile bird, takes flight and then,
    returns, wings clipped, unseen, again.

    By Elizabeth Proett

  • “It’s Not You, It’s Me”

    The messenger chime echoed, a digital death knell in the quiet of my room. Hours before, the air had thrummed with the phantom touch of his voice, promises whispered across the digital divide. Now the screen glowed with the cold, sterile pronouncement: “It’s not you, it’s me.” A phrase as worn as an old coin, yet it landed with the force of a freshly forged blade.

    I was the cartographer of his heart, meticulously charting its contours, believing I had found a steady north star. I had built bridges of late-night calls and shared dreams, spanning the miles like delicate, spun-sugar threads. And then, he simply retracted them, leaving me stranded on an island of disbelief.

    The “it’s not you” was a phantom echo, a hollow reassurance that did nothing to soothe the raw, exposed nerves of my soul. It was a magicians trick, a sleight of hand that vanished the man I knew, replacing him with a stranger whose words tasted of ash.

    I was a garden, carefully tended, watered with loyalty and faith. And he, the gardener, decided to plant his seeds elsewhere, leaving my blooms to wither under the sudden, harsh glare of abandonment.

    The digital screen, once a portal to connection, became a mirror reflecting my own stunned face, a portrait of betrayal painted in the cold light of a messenger notification. I was a character in a story abruptly rewritten, the plot twisted into a narrative I no longer recognized.

    But even in the ruins of a shattered connection, there is a quiet strength. I am a phoenix, destined to rise from the ashes of this heartbreak. The tears I shed are not a sign of weakness, but a cleansing rain, washing away the remnants of his ghost.

    I will learn to navigate this new landscape, to find my own north star, to cultivate a garden that blooms with self-love and resilience. The messenger chime may have signaled the end of one chapter, but it also marks the beginning of another, a story of my own making, written with the ink of my own strength and determination.

    This one hurt…. By Elizabeth Proett

  • The In-Between Space

    The world shimmered, not with visual distortion, but with an unseen energy that pulsed beneath the surface of things. I existed in that shimmering, that liminal space between knowledge and feeling, where the mind’s sharp edges blurred into the raw, untamed landscape of the heart.

    It was a primal intimacy, a conversation whispered between my soul and the rustling leaves, the murmuring stream, the sigh of the wind. The oak tree in my backyard wasn’t just an oak tree; it was a stoic guardian, its roots anchoring deep into the earth, mirroring my own yearning for stability. The rain wasn’t merely precipitation; it was a symphony of release, each drop a tiny drumbeat echoing the rhythm of my own tears.

    My emotions weren’t simply internal states; they were living entities, swirling around me like a kaleidoscope of butterflies, each one a fleeting expression of the world’s vibrant pulse. Joy wasn’t just a feeling; it was the sun warming my skin, the laughter of children echoing in the park, the sweet taste of a ripe strawberry bursting on my tongue. Grief wasn’t an abstract concept; it was the hallow ache in my chest, the weight of unshed tears, the lingering scent of rain on dry earth.

    This in-between space was where I truly lived, where the boundaries between self and other dissolved. I felt the heartbeat of the earth beneath my feet, the ancient wisdom of the mountains etched upon my soul. The whispers of the wind carried secrets, and the rustling leaves sang lullabies that soothed my restless spirit.

    It wasn’t always easy, this dance between knowing and feeling. The mind, with its insatiable hunger for logic and order, often struggled to reconcile with the heart’s wild untamed nature. But I had learned to navigate this terrain, to find a delicate balance between the two.

    In the quiet moments, when the world was hushed and still, I would close my eyes and listen. I would listen to the symphony of my own emotions, the whispers of the wind, the rustling of leaves, the steady beat of my own heart. And in that listening, I found a profound sense of peace, a connection to something larger than myself.

    This was my reality, a tapestry woven from the threads of knowledge and feeling, a world where the boundaries between self and other blurred, where emotions danced like fireflies in the twilight, and where the whispers of the wind carried the secrets of the universe. It was a world of primal intimacy, where I lived and breathed and felt the pulse of life in every fiber of my being.

  • A Poem: Because Love…

    A flicker in the chest, they call it love,
    but maybe it’s the spark igniting the forge.
    “Side effect,” the words whisper,
    a byproduct of something wilder, deeper.

    Tell me, honestly,
    have you ever held something dear,
    a sunrise painted across a lover’s face,
    the way a child’s laughter spills like spilled starlight,
    and not felt the urge, the ache,
    to capture it, to hold it, to …make?

    A song, a clumsy melody hummed in the shower,
    a poem scribbled on a napkin, stained with coffee,
    a prayer, a desperate plea to the uncaring sky,
    even a mess, a chaotic burst of paint,
    a kitchen floor sticky with the remnants of late night baking,
    a testament to shared joy.

    Love, they say, is blind,
    but I say it’s the only thing that sees too much,
    sees the fleeting beauty, the fragile moments,
    the way the world is always slipping through our fingers.

    And in the reckless abandon,
    it demands immortality.
    Not in stone or bronze,
    but in the echoes of a song sung late at night,
    in the worn pages of a love letter,
    in the memories we build, brick by fragile brick,
    a legacy of feeling, a monument to the heart’s wild,
    untamed creation.

    Because love, it doesn’t just feel, it …does.
    It spills out, it overflows, it paints the world.
    in the colors of our deepest desires,
    leaving behind a trail of art, a testament
    to the messy, beautiful, undeniable truth:
    we were here, we loved, we…made.

    By Elizabeth Proett

  • The Superposition of Soulmates: A Quantum Love Story

    Quantum physics, with its mind-bending concepts of superposition and entanglement, seems a universe away from the messy, emotional realm of love. Yet, lately, I’ve found myself pondering the curious parallels. Perhaps, just perhaps, the search for “the one” isn’t so different from the dance of subatomic particles.

    Think about it: before you meet someone special, they exist in a state of superposition. They are, potentially, everything and nothing to you. A collection of possibilities, a wave function of potential compatibility. They are the barista with the kind smile, the person whose profile you scrolled past on the dating app, the stranger whose laugh you overheard in a bookstore. They exist in a probabilistic cloud, their potential as your soulmate unquantified, undefined. Until, that is, you observe them.

    The act of meeting, of truly seeing someone, is akin to a quantum measurement. It collapses the wave function. Suddenly, they are no longer a collection of possibilities, but a concrete individual, standing before you in sharp focus. The infinite potential narrows down to a specific person, with their quirks and charms, their history and hopes. The act of connection, of shared laughter or a lingering glance, is the interaction that forces them into a defined state – either a potential partner or not.

    And then there’s entanglement. Quantum entanglement describes how two particles can become linked, their fates intertwined regardless of the distance separating them. Doesn’t this resonate with the feeling of deep connection, of a bond that transcends physical proximity? The feeling that you just ‘know’ someone, that their thoughts and feelings echo within you, even when miles apart. Perhaps this isn’t just romantic fancy, but a kind of emotional entanglement, a connection forged on a deeper, almost subatomic level.

    There’s no formula for calculating the probability of finding your soulmate. But the metaphors resonate. Just as quantum particles exist in a state of uncertainty until observed, so too does love seem to operate on a principle of chance and destiny. It requires a leap of faith, a willingness to collapse the wave function and see what emerges. It demands vulnerability, the courage to entangle your heart with another, knowing that the connection, while potentially transformative, could also lead to heartbreak.

    But maybe, just maybe, by embracing the uncertainty, by allowing ourselves to be observed and to observe others with open hearts, we increase the probability of finding our own entangled soulmate. Maybe, just maybe, love is as mysterious and wonderful as the quantum world itself.

    *Is The Collapse of Wave Function at the Heart of Reality? medium.com

    *What Is Quantum Entanglement? NASA Science science.nasa.gov

  • My Biggest Toxic Trait

    “My biggest toxic trait is…I know how to love but I don’t know how to believe I’m loved.” The words, stark and honest, hit a nerve. It’s a confession, a raw admission of deep-seated vulnerability. It’s about the chasm between knowing how to give love and accepting it in return. It’s a painful paradox, a heart that overflows with affection yet struggles to receive it.

    This isn’t just about romantic love. It bleeds into every facet of connection – friendships, family, community. It’s the gnawing feeling that I’m on a periphery, always extending a hand while bracing for rejection. It’s the fear that if people truly knew me, the messy, imperfect me, the love would vanish like the morning mist.

    I know how to love. I love deeply, passionately, completely. I love with every fiber of my being, offering my heart freely, without reservation. I nurture connections, celebrate milestones, offer support, give gifts, express affection – the full repertoire of love languages flows effortlessly from me. It’s innate, a part of who I am.

    But believing I’m loved? That’s the battleground. That’s where the insecurities whisper their insidious lies. “You’re not worthy.” “You’re too much.” “They don’t really care.” The voices are relentless, eroding my self-worth, making me question the sincerity of every embrace, every compliment, every expression of affection.

    It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy, this inability to accept love, I push people away, create distance, test their loyalty, all subconsciously, all driven by the fear of being hurt, of being proven right – that I’m not lovable. And in doing so, I create the very reality that I dread.

    It’s exhausting, this constant push and pull, this internal war between the heart that wants to connect and the mind that sabotages every opportunity. It’s a lonely existence, even surrounded by people who care. It’s like being on the outside looking in, watching love flow between others, wondering if I’ll every truly be a part of it.

    This quote, it’s a mirror reflecting my deepest fear – the fear of vulnerability, the fear of not being enough. It’s a call to self-awareness, a recognition of a toxic pattern that needs to be broken. It’s a reminder that healing begins with acknowledging the wound.

    Learning to believe I am loved is a journey, a long and arduous one. It requires dismantling the wall I have built around my heart, challenging the negative voices, and embracing vulnerability with open arms. It means accepting the love offered, even when it feels uncomfortable, even when a part of me whispers, “This can’t be real.”

    It’s about self-compassion, recognizing my worthiness, understanding that I am deserving of love, just as I am. It’s about rewriting the narrative, silencing the inner critic, and allowing myself to be loved, truly loved, without reservation or fear. It’s about finally believing that the love I so freely give can also be mine to receive. It’s about coming home to myself, accepting all the pieces, and finally understanding that I am enough. And in that acceptance, opening myself to the boundless possibilities of love.